In Asia, life centers on food, sitting
down and sharing a
meal with friends and families.
The Chinese always greet
each other asking, "Have you eaten
enough?", as if that
is the only thing we should be
concerned about in life.
The only problem is that no one
really expects the truth
and you are not obliged to tell
how hungry you are unless
you're confident that you will
be invited.
In the early church, believers
greeted each other with a
kiss and expressed their brotherly
love to each other.
Yet, apostles cautioned this practice
in fear of this too
becoming ritualized.
"Dear children, let us not love
with words or tongue but
with actions and in truth."
1 John 3:18 (NIV)
The Chinese know that their
hosts are genuine when the
hosts compel and insist their guests
share a meal with
them. It is not only the
food but also the time spent in
getting to know more about you
which is precious.
Too often, we make "Jesus
loves you and I love you too!"
into an insincere and hollow verbal
expression.
How do I make it real? Shouldn't
I back up my statement
with an offer?
Perhaps meeting for a lunch
together or inviting the
family over for a meal is a good
way to start. During that
time, I can find out more about
my friend's spiritual and
other needs.
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