From: Charles Lam
Dear Man Keung,
Your enjoyable trip is really my envy. How I wish I could be with you!
It's really hard to find friends like this today. We need to treasure
such heart-to-heart freindship. The suggestion to go to
movies on Tuesday night is a good one; I have got some insight from
such idea.
Some response to your last part. I haven't got all the answers yet; I am still searching and believe that 'search and we shall find'.
One thing I think will help is: don't think that we have only the last quarter left. Why not the second half or the last third! An advice I have got from others is: if you think you are young, you are young! A bit of 'Ah Q' spirit?
Wish you all (and your families) will have many more such enjoyable times.
Kam Wah
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Subject: kayaking in the kawksbury river north of Sydney
Date: Sat, 20 May 2000
From: Man Keung
Hello everybody,
We Sydney 4 guys have another happy kayaking tour today in lower Hawksbury
river
north of Sydney. It's another beautiful day - clear blue sky, green
bush, rather clear
green water, warm sunlight, peaceful and charming environment. We gathered
at
Chi Hung's house at 7:45, set off at 8:20, arrived Brooklyn(40 km away)
at 9:30 and
started our journey at 9:45. We had a time trial between 2 bridges
which is about
2.8 km. It took me and Chi Hung 17' 37'' to complete the course. I
felt tired in the
middle but managed to finish quite gracefully. How's that timing? It's
not too bad
since we're against the tide.
We paddled past Peat island which is a hospital /rehabilitation place
for the mentally ill.
We tried to land but decided to leave when the patients yelled from
their veranda.
We took a rest at a small rocky beach at the other side of the bay
which is the staff
hostels area. We were very cautious during landing but when we were
leaving,
Kam Hung skidded on the muddy rock and felt onto water. That's what
usually happens -
you get caught in a suprise when you're not prepared.
We paddled up the river, passing through the Milsons Passage where
there are
a small settlement of about 30 waterfront houses with private piers.
I talked
about the possibility of residing there, but Bobby's remark was: why
live here
if you are not a police wanted person!
Our destiny - Bar island was in view when we were out of the passage.
It took us longer time than expected to reach there since we were against
the tide. We landed at the small pocket of sand and oystered rocks
besides
a deserted wooden pier. We shared our food, stripped to enjoy the warmth
of the sunlight and chatted about our future life in the coming 20
years which
is at the other end of our life journey. The exchange was stimulating
and would
definitely go on in our future trips. Durin the "boy talk", I suggested
that we
should try to go out with our other half to the cinema once a week
, preferrably
Tuesday since it's the day of movie discount. One of us said that's
what he do
on Tuesday night. He then revealed a small secret - his after work
time schedule
has been well and fully arranged by the "managress of the house". That's
a way
of achieving harmony at home, isn't it? Guess who's that guy among
us four!
We took some photos on the pier. Before we left, Bobby set up the auto
function
of his camera, hurried back to us but skidded on the muddy rock. He
was swift
and strong enough to land on both hands and was lucky to have only
a small cut
on the knees. I was the third one to fell down later that day, but
on muddy lawn,
while washing kayaks at the starting point. That shouldn't be abnormal
with old
men like us.
We set off our return journey at 1:30p.m. and had another time trial
between
the 2 bridges, this time with the tide. Chi Hung was the winner with
a good time
of 13 minutes. The others were 1 to 2 minutes behind. It's really tough
paddling at
full strength for such a long time. Chris surely deserves the applause.
We went back the starting point at 2:45, washed the kayaks, took a
few manadrins
and returned. On the way Bobby took us to a small cake shop by the
side of the
old Pacific Highway. We sat around a table on the lawn outside,
overlooking
the lush green valleys and hills and a strip of blue waterway down
under. The
pies were delicious with coffee and cuppercino, the memories of last
weekend's
trip, recalled by the photos, were sweet. We all felt really happy
to have enjoyed
such a wonderful day. That's life! That's what we deserve after working
hard for
50 years. How many times can we be blessed with the same enjoyment
in such a
beautiful and relaxed environment, with our old friends, during our
last quarter of
the life journey? I was not particularly philosophical but when you
are approaching
or a bit over 50, it's not unusual to think about the meaning
of life. Kam Wah has
got the answer, I believe.
Hope to share the enjoyment with you in Sydney!
Man Keung
May 20, 2000
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Subject: Kam Wah's article in memory of Chiu sir
Date: Fri, 19 May 2000
From: Man Keung
Dear Kam Wah,
I just had time to read through your article in memory of Chiu sir.
I find it an excellent piece of writing in exploring and reflecting
the
beliefs, feeling and inside world of Chiu sir through narration of
his early careers, his KCA endeavour, his baptism and his thoughts
before he passed away. The paragraph on Wai Sum is also
appropriate because she was the one that supports and comforts
Chiu sir for 20 years.
The last paragraph summing up Kamching spirit is also very
meaningful.
Is it possible to translate this and Jim's article into Chinese?
I would suggest Kam Hung not to continue with the translation
of my article into English because it's not easy and also not
necessary for most Kamching friends. I would think translation
of Kam Wah's and Jim's article should be of higher priority.
I hope that others could write small articles on a particular
event or on one incident which was typical of Chiu sir's character
and Kamching spirit. We can then group them together into
a special memorial article. I hope that some of you could
try to write something this weekend. In that way, the memorial
folder could have a more complete coverage of the life and
achievement of Chiu sir.
best regards,
Man Keung